nyslfriends Chapter 23, Experience
Chapter 23, Experience
Luo Jiamao's parents are people who want to save face. With so many people watching, they naturally wouldn't beat their children in public.
Gao Xiuyang entered the classroom, and the farce was over.
Xu Xingli pulled her father to sit down near Luo Jiamao, and said in a low voice, "This way we will be able to watch closely as soon as we fight."
Xu Zhiyuan was speechless for a while, and he couldn't figure out whether she really wanted to watch the excitement or was trying to find another way to persuade the fight, so he said honestly: "I can't fight."
Xu Xingli felt quite regretful, and looked at the Luo family of three blatantly, and replied to her father, "Actually, my deskmate can start a fight with just a few more sentences, why doesn't he talk?"
Xu Zhiyuan: "..."
You can look forward to it.
Seeing that the parent meeting was about to start, Xu Zhiyuan asked Xu Xingli to confirm again and again: "Are you sure the rest will be praised?"
Xu Xingli was confident, patted his chest and promised, "It must be, otherwise I will pull Teacher Gao down and let you beat me up."
Xu Zhiyuan: "...?"
Do all your children who grew up abroad swear like this?
Gao Xiuyang suddenly felt that his back was a little cold, so he silently raised the temperature of the air conditioner by two degrees.
After the preparatory work is done, the parent meeting will start slowly.
As Xu Xingli said, most of the content of the parent meeting is praise.
One is to affirm the progress of the students in class 15 and praise everyone's learning enthusiasm. Among the 15 classes in the first grade, class 15 has the worst learning foundation, but this time the average score has reached the middle level of the age, which is worthy of praise.
The second is to hope that everyone can maintain this momentum and continue to work hard. The first year of high school is just the beginning of the marathon.
The third is to praise the collective cohesion of the students. When encountering problems, everyone can work together to solve them together, but I also hope that everyone's cohesion can be used in the right direction-this is beating the people who took the lead in making troubles led by Xu Xingli.
The parent meeting was held happily, and no one was criticized by name, but many students who made great progress were named and praised. Tian Ke and Wei Xian were both on the list of praise.
Gao Xiuyang did not praise Xu Xingli, but took Xu Xingli as the golden signboard of Class 15, telling parents to believe in the teachers of Luo University High School, if they are willing to study hard, Class 15 can also educate the first grade.
Many parents present had heard of Xu Xingli's name. There was a "No. [-] Scholar" in the class. The students all took the initiative to show off to the parents: Look, that grade is number one, isn't it amazing?It's our classmate!
Many students also told their parents that my progress in the exam was due to her pre-exam tutoring and key points.
Therefore, most parents have a good initial impression of Xu Xingli. The more they look at her, the more pleasing they are. She should be a well-behaved and cute little girl.
Gao Xiuyang talked with Xu Zhiyuan in the morning, and felt that Xu Zhiyuan was a very reasonable, well-organized and nice-sounding person, so he decided to let Xu Zhiyuan take the stage to share his parenting experience with the parents.
But he didn't expect that Xu Zhiyuan was an honest person.
Although Xu Zhiyuan did come here to be praised, he was not greedy for merit at all.
As soon as Xu Zhiyuan opened his mouth, he told everyone the truth: "I actually have no experience in raising children. If I have to say it, I am free-range parenting."
Gao Xiuyang guessed that he was going to say that Xu Xingli was not raised by him, so he smoothed things over in advance, "Mr. Xu is very good. There is also a son in the family who is No.1 in the third year of high school, and another daughter who also entered the top [-] in the first grade."
The parents were in an uproar—this family is so strong!
Xu Zhiyuan smiled shyly, and said: "The eldest son is an orphan of a friend. He has been sensible since he was a child, and he always wanted to do something to repay me. I told him that studying hard is the best reward for me. He listened to it." Yes, the first place in the exam every time. With him as a role model, his sister will follow him."
This is no secret in the attached high school, the students have more or less heard the gossip.
Xu Zhiyuan returned to the topic: "Although Xingli is my own daughter, I really didn't bring her up. I was afraid of delaying everyone, so I asked her adoptive father for advice in advance. The other party said that she can be freed, and she can give the child whatever she wants."
Translated into adult words, it means that the child strives for himself, and has nothing to do with the parents.
But parents definitely don't like to hear this kind of talk. Everyone likes some chicken soup stories such as Meng's mother moving three times.
Xu Zhiyuan also understands, and he still has to say in the scene: "Of course, to establish correct values for children, you need to teach by precepts and deeds. Human beings are born to imitate. What you are, children will imitate what you are. 360 lines, the best in every action , I suggest that everyone ask the child what kind of person he wants to be in the future, and then lead him to work hard in this direction."
Some students raised their hands: "If you haven't figured out what to do in the future, what should you do?"
Xu Xingli glanced at him, thought about his family background, and said: "Anyway, your family is rich, and if you are a rich second generation who is just waiting to die, your uncles and aunts should not be able to beat you to death. The rest of your life is very long, think about it slowly. "
The class laughed together, and the atmosphere became extremely relaxed.
Someone joked: "This is so useless."
Xu Xingli: "You can sit here, it must be because your uncle and aunt are promising. It is enough for a family to have one promising person. If there are more, it will be icing on the cake."
With just a few words, all the parents present laughed.
After everyone laughed, Xu Zhiyuan said seriously: "Our generation works so hard to create a good starting point for our children. As for which direction the children should run, every family is different, so I can't just give advice. I can only suggest parents to calm down, communicate more with their children, be more patient, and accompany them more. I also hope that students can understand that the money parents earn belongs to their parents, and whether they are willing to spend it for you and how much they are willing to give you It's their business, if your parents don't give you money, can you still support yourself?"
Xu Xingli thought about Xu Zhiyuan's question seriously, and asked herself, she can support herself, but the quality of life is not sure - she still has to go to university, it's always good to have a way out.
Xu Zhiyuan looked at the parents peacefully, implying something: "Beating and scolding cannot solve the problem. If the child is difficult to communicate, you can try to let him out to experience the hardships of life. But this method must be ruthless , can not provide any help until TA takes the initiative to go home."
Xu Xingli rolled up the report card into a loudspeaker, and said with a paper loudspeaker: "If the child succeeds, he may not come back. Parents, please use it with caution."
Xu Zhiyuan: "Why are you still tearing down my desk?"
Xu Xingli said earnestly, "Dad, you don't understand. Children now play exciting games, such as racing, parkour, and skiing. If you really let him out, he may fall and come back paralyzed."
Xu Zhiyuan was dumbfounded, he really didn't consider this aspect, the three children in their family are all good, they don't need to be worried about, and they don't like to play these exciting things.
He started from scratch, he knows how hard it is to start a business, and he also knows that without a good diploma these days, he can't find a good job at all. When his child is outside and accepts the beatings of the society, he should come back and study obediently.
Xu Xingli continued: "There are still children who have been released. Ask the parents' contacts for help. Everyone knows that this is your child. If you don't help, you will lose face, right? When the time comes and you owe millions of money by bluffing around, who will pay back the money? "
Xu Xingli thought about how wealthy the students in the class were, and then patched it up and said: "I almost forgot that our class is very wealthy, and a few million may not be a problem for everyone... How much money can we cheat based on everyone's worth? Everyone Think about it, I have never seen the world before I admit it.”
After she finished speaking, she flattened the paper roll and didn't plan to make any more additions.
The parents talked a lot and agreed very much—the children nowadays are not only skinny, but also very good at making connections and cheating money.
Xu Zhiyuan thought about her words seriously, and frankly admitted to the parents: "The three children in my family are very worry-free, and they don't need me to supervise their studies. But interest is always the best teacher. The parents present may be busy. I don’t have time to pay attention to what the child likes. I suggest that everyone go back and have a good communication, at least let the child know what conditions are needed to engage in related work in the future. If he has a goal, he will naturally be willing to learn.”
After he finished speaking, he nodded to Gao Xiuyang and stepped off the stage in a big stride.
Xu Xingli teased him in a low voice: "I didn't expect Mr. Xu's parenting experience to be superficial? It's like Zhao Kuo."
Xu Zhiyuan was at a loss: "Is there any allusion to Zhao Kuo's raising children?"
Xu Xingli: "On paper, Comrade Xu."
Xu Zhiyuan: "..."
The co-author is to satirize him around the bend.
Gao Xiuyang did not expect that a simple sharing of educational experience in class 15 would lead to a series of issues such as children's rebellious period and how to deal with foreign debts.
He thought about it carefully, and it was indeed when Xu Xingli interrupted.
He planned to educate Xu Xingli after the parent meeting was over, so that she could get rid of her bad habit of interrupting.
Little did he know, Xu Xingli was plotting with his father to "skip class" at this very moment: "Old Comrade Xu, I guess you know what we're going to say next, or we'll sneak out through the back door?"
Xu Zhiyuan: "Is this not good?"
Xu Xingli looked at the vacant back door and was about to move: "There's no show going on, and we won't call our names anymore. It's boring to stay here, let's go?"
Gao Xiuyang: "Students can leave first and go to the classroom to wait. Next, I have to talk to the parents individually."
Xu Xingli patted Xu Zhiyuan's shoulder, rather gloating: "Goodbye——how about you go out among the students?"
Xu Zhiyuan didn't know whether to laugh or cry: "If you can't get in, hurry up and leave."
Then Xu Zhiyuan watched helplessly as a group of students surrounded Xu Xingli and left the multimedia studio.
Not long after I came here, I became the king of kids in Class 15.
The students surrounded Xu Xingli not to ask how to improve his grades, but curious: "You seem to have a lot of experience of running away from home?"
Xu Xingli: "Indeed, I can do street art, do you want to learn?"
Wei Xian was in a complicated mood: "Your magic show is not for running away from home, is it?"
Xu Xingli: "No, I have been able to since I was a child. But after I run away from home, I can indeed use it to exchange for food money—so, my own ability is the foundation of my life."
Tian Ke was curious: "Then if you run away from home now, will you still perform magic tricks on the street?"
Xu Xingli was puzzled: "Why did I run away from home? Can't I blackmail my dad and let him buy another house?"
"what?"
Xu Xingli said: "Anyway, I'm tired of seeing each other, so I might as well live in another place, out of sight and out of mind, he likes me too."
A group of dandy rich second generations suddenly felt a little complicated, their eyes were full of pity, they patted her on the shoulder and said: "No need to buy new ones, usually there are several houses in the family, your parents may not have told you about it."
Xu Xingli: "?"
Tian Ke: "What if I don't give you the keys to other houses?"
Xu Xingli: "Then I'll go to your house to touch porcelain. Anyway, your family is rich, and my uncles and aunts should welcome me as a tutor. The food must be good, and maybe I can earn some pocket money."
classmates:"……"
Good guy, we came to you to ask about your experience of running away from home to touch your parents' connections, but you turned your head and wanted to touch us.
Someone suggested, "Why don't you go to the school next door and play around now?"
Xu Xingli was puzzled: "The school uniform is different, right? If you turn it over, you will be recognized right away."
Tian Ke put his arms around her shoulders, looking like a big sister in society: "Small problems, as long as they don't disturb their class order, they will not be talked about."
Wei Xian: "I used to climb over to find them to play basketball. If girls are not good at climbing over walls, I know there is a railing that is easy to get through."
"This class happens to be the physical education class of the rocket class in the first year of senior high school. How about playing a friendly basketball game with them?"
Xu Xingli: "..."
I even figured out the class schedule, it seems that they are all veterans.
Xu Xingli wondered: "I want to go too?"
Wei Xian: "That's necessary. It's rare that our highest score is higher than the neighbor's. Of course we have to show it off."
What a deep resentment it must be to treat the students next door with such a double blow of sports and grades.
Xu Xingli remembered the previous saying of "cultural poverty alleviation", and suddenly understood the feelings of these "upstarts".
A group of people marched towards the railing leading to the next door with great arrogance. Whether it was going over the wall or drilling the railing in front, it was quite smooth, but Xu Xingli got stuck here.
Xu Xingli passed half of his body, got stuck between the railings and couldn't get through, couldn't come back, covered his face in embarrassment and indignation: "No one told me that it would get stuck——!"
Tian Ke wanted to laugh but didn't dare to laugh, so he couldn't help, so he could only worry by the side, and tried to clear himself up: "The main reason is that we have never encountered such troubles...you always use your coat to cover your eyes. Now, I can't see it..."
It was the first time I saw the one with the big head stuck, and the chest stuck on the railing.
Wei Xian was at a loss: "Shall we go to the teacher for help?"
Tell the teacher at the parent meeting that their No. [-] grade is like a dried salty fish stuck in the railing leading to the No. [-] Middle School next door?
Xu Xingli: "..."
At the scene of a large social death, she could even imagine that a group of people would come to the railing to watch and laugh at her immediately.
The author says:
1 minute before: Dad, you continue to listen to the boring parent meeting, I'm going out to play!
1 minute later: Can't get out QAQ stuck QAQ!Help--