i have a small world

Chapter 1297 One person gains the Tao, and the chicken and the dog ascend to the sky!

The bridal chamber quarrel ended soon. Since everyone was very restrained, although Zhao Chaogang suffered some difficulties in the bridal chamber, nothing unpleasant happened, and the bridal chamber disturbance was successfully concluded.

After the bridal chamber, some guests are ready to go back. Of course, those close relatives, or some girlfriends who are very close to Pingping and Jingjing, did not go back immediately. Such a good visit, touring the secret world of martial arts How could these people miss this opportunity? If it weren't for the visit, it would take a lot of time to visit the secret martial arts environment. Both Shi Zhengming and Zheng Qiushi would stay to visit the secret martial arts environment.

Whether they want to go back now, or plan to stay and visit, to visit the secret world of martial arts, Zhao Chaogang, Li Liping, Liu Jingjing, they all have to prepare to get married in return.

Wedding gift is a custom of folk marriage, which means that within a few months after the wedding, go to the house of relatives and friends who are good friends who participated in your wedding, and give something as a gift. After marriage, visit relatives to let the wife get familiar Friendly friends around are conducive to future communication and harmony.

The wedding return gift is a special gift given by the couple to thank the guests. Usually, the thank you gift does not include wedding candy.The guests who come to congratulate and the relatives and friends who are unable to attend are all the objects that the newcomers give wedding gifts in return.It is also an expression of gratitude that new people express their gratitude in this way.now.These etiquettes now don't have to be so troublesome.On the wedding day, all relatives and friends present will receive a prepared small gift.For example, thank you cards printed with wedding photos, or badges, the easiest way is to send wedding candies.

In foreign countries, people often mail thankyou cards to guests after they get married. Some of the unique designs can also leave a deep impression on people, allowing everyone to share the joy of your marriage.

The origin of the wedding return gift: There are different opinions on the origin of the wedding return gift. One of the more reasonable explanations is that the return gift is a long-standing folk wedding custom.A few months after the wedding, relatives and friends who attended the wedding need to pay a visit to the residence of the host, and the host needs to buy something or give homemade desserts and cakes to relatives and friends to thank them for their visit.This kind of intention is called "return gift".

Objects of wedding gifts: 1. From the total number of invitations sent, or the number of wedding tables, roughly estimated, purchase gifts.

2. When writing invitations.Write the guest's name into the gift list at the same time. 4. Carefully recall the distant relatives and friends who cannot attend the wedding. In order to avoid omissions, the couple can use the method of elimination, starting with distant relatives, and then counting good friends and classmates.After sorting out, write your name into the gift list.

5. You can prepare 10 to 15 more copies within the budget on the wedding day.Avoid leakage.

Choose a gift: Different regions have different gifts in return.For loved ones.You can have meals together in your spare time; when giving gifts, you should consider the age and preferences of the other party; when giving gifts to the elders, it is more appropriate to choose tableware.

Wedding return gift preparation: first you have to determine the number of return gifts. 1. Estimate the number of guests: Estimate the number from the total number of invitations, check for omissions and fill in the gaps, and then buy gifts. On the wedding day, you can ask family members to help calculate the number of guests present, and then prepare the gifts for distribution.

2. Make a return list: When writing invitations, write the names of the guests into the return list at the same time, and carefully recall the relatives and friends who are not able to attend the wedding in the distance. friends, classmates.After sorting it out, write your name into the return gift list. On the wedding day, you can prepare 20 more copies within the budget, in case there are not enough and there are omissions!…

Then choose how and when to give:

1. The newlyweds who have already purchased the gift can choose to give it to the guests on the wedding day. The newlyweds who have no time to prepare the gift during the wedding preparation period can give it to the guests within one month after the wedding.

2. If you choose to present on the day, you can put the return gift on the wedding banquet table, or deliver it to the guests in person during the toast.The newlyweds who choose to return gifts after the wedding can choose different delivery methods according to the home addresses of relatives and friends.You can go there in person or by courier.

Ways of giving wedding return gifts: New couples who have already purchased gifts can choose to give them to guests present on the wedding day, while couples who do not have time to prepare gifts during the wedding preparation period can give gifts to guests within one month after the wedding.

If you choose to give a wedding return gift on the day, you can put the wedding return gift on the wedding banquet table, or deliver it to the guests in person during the toast. This method is suitable for couples who are not afraid of drinking.

The newlyweds who choose to return gifts after the wedding can choose different delivery methods according to the home addresses of relatives and friends, either in person or by express delivery.If sending by post, it's a good idea to include a thank you note with the package.

Purchase of wedding return gifts: There are usually two ways to purchase wedding return gifts: one is unified purchase, that is, all guests are given the same gift.Although this method is more labor-saving, it always makes people feel a little perfunctory.

The second method is that guests give different gifts according to different importance or age groups.And if you choose the first method to give the same gift, it is generally recommended to buy a gift with a unit price of 20-50 yuan.If you choose the second "targeted" method to give gifts, you can choose wedding gifts at different prices according to the importance of the guests.

The purchase of wedding gifts can be divided into two periods: one is one month before the wedding, when other wedding preparations are in a hurry, you can start to buy one after another.The other is to purchase thank you gifts about one month after the wedding and distribute them to the guests.

Of course, there is also the most important point, the taboo of wedding gifts, this is where ideas are most needed, otherwise, there will be big problems, and once something goes wrong.Marriage is not festive, and the omen is not good.

There are taboos about wedding return gifts, and the choice of wedding return gifts should be considered as a whole.If there are friends from other ethnic groups participating, do they have any special taboos?Also, don't choose a less than thoughtful return gift, it's too rude.

1. Fragile items are not conducive to transportation at the time of purchase, and it is not convenient for guests to take them away, and it is even more unlucky.

2. Gifts with a short shelf life are easy to expire and deteriorate, so don't just waste your time and effort in choosing gifts in return.

3. The return time cannot be too late.Otherwise, for others, there will be a feeling of not being taken seriously.

Wedding gifts are not only for us Chinese who have a long history in the Western world.Wedding returns also have a long history.

In Western tradition, wedding return gifts have a profound tradition.In ancient times, the couple would prepare some snacks such as cookies before the wedding banquet so that the guests could enjoy them during the wedding; later.Some rich Italians.Some expensive silk scarves will be given to the guests.At that time, these were used to show off their wealth!

Newcomers in ancient Europe would also put some sugar cubes in exquisite small boxes for guests.Sugar cubes were some very expensive things in those days.Of course, the sugar box is not an ordinary box, those boxes are full of precious gems; of course, this is all done to show off wealth.

Wedding gift, in different places, the form is not the same.The wedding return gift is an expression of gratitude to relatives and friends who were unable to attend the banquet after receiving the gift.The selected wedding gifts are also more practical, such as smoking and drinking.Or meat, the starting point is not only to make relatives and friends happy, but also a kind of "compensation" for not being able to eat.And the guests who come to the wedding banquet do not need to prepare gifts in return.

As a customary folk custom, returning gifts embodies a kind of simple and kind folk customs, and it is a kind of real sincerity.In fact, in the whole process of the wedding, returning gifts is only a small part of it, and sending invitations to invite people also has a lot of attention.

For example, if you want to have a wedding at home, you can invite relatives and friends, and you can’t send wedding invitations empty-handed. You have to bring “gifts”, such as flour, eggs, etc., which reflects a kind of respect and care.

Now, people's living standards are high, but the human relationship is generally weak.Especially reflected in these traditional etiquettes, simplification of simplification, elimination of removal, inviting people to face each other, and sending a group of text messages; even sending invitations at work units is like wholesale, without much emotional connotation.

The fast pace of contemporary life and people's impetuous hearts filter out our original simplicity and kindness, and some beautiful affections disappear forever in this fast pace.

Only in the lost narrations of the elders can we see the young children listening casually and half understanding.

Choosing what to do in return seems to be a trivial matter in the whole wedding process, but it is not.The moment your relatives and friends get your gift in return, they can appreciate your cultural taste, life values, aesthetic style, sincerity, strength and other information.

Therefore, this matter should never be underestimated or neglected, but should be highly valued, carefully designed, and used as a return gift to tell the guests that you are unique, noble, outstanding, affectionate, sincere and warm, and value friends... The development of these qualities is crucial for a social person, especially a newcomer who is still in its infancy.

Don't be afraid of trouble, don't be too cumbersome, life is born to experience all kinds of troubles.Don’t underestimate some things. The result is definitely different if you do it or if you don’t do it. There is also a huge difference between doing well and doing poorly.

As for what to give, it ultimately has to be considered in terms of strength.There are two criteria for reference: one is unique commemoration; the other is specific practicality.

Zhao Chaogang, Li Liping, and Liu Jingjing attached great importance to the wedding gift, and the wedding gift they chose was prepared according to the criteria of unique commemoration and specific practicality.

Based on these two criteria, the choice of wedding return gift was very clear. Soon, Zhao Chaogang, Li Liping, and Liu Jingjing had chosen the specific items of wedding return gift.

A calendar with details of the wedding banquet scene on the wedding day, a gift box of wedding candy and cakes, and a crystal necklace carved according to the zodiac signs of the guests.

A wall calendar with specific circumstances on the day of the wedding banquet is definitely a good choice in the wedding return gift, and every family must have a wall calendar.Even some beautiful calendars can be collected as collectibles, and this calendar prepared by Zhao Chaogang is definitely worth collecting.

All the pictures in the calendar were directly imprinted by Zhao Chaogang with his spiritual consciousness.Therefore, the beauty of the pictures is absolutely extraordinary, and since the pictures of these calendars are all branded by Zhao Chaogang with his spiritual consciousness, these calendars are considered treasures.

The paintings on these calendars were branded by Zhao Chaogang with his spiritual consciousness.Therefore, these calendars all contain a trace of Zhao Chaogang's spiritual consciousness, although this trace of spiritual consciousness can be said to be close to zero.However, spiritual consciousness can only be possessed by cultivators who have reached the third level of the Qi refining stage, and neither acquired nor innate stage warriors will have it.so.No matter how rare the consciousness is, it is a treasure for ordinary people or warriors.

Moreover, the most important thing is that the consciousness on these calendars was originally left by Zhao Chaogang on purpose.

Those who came to Zhao Chaogang's wedding today are all relatives and good friends of Zhao Chaogang's family.Therefore, Zhao Chaogang had to give these people some benefits.

As the saying goes: one person gains the Tao.Chicken and dog ascend to heaven!This is an idiom, which means that when one person attains Taoism and becomes immortal, the whole family, even chickens and dogs, will also ascend to heaven.

The source of this idiom is based on a story. It is said that when Emperor Wu of the Han Dynasty, Liu An, the king of Huainan, believed in cultivating Taoism and alchemy. He met eight old men with white hair and childlike face. He worshiped them as teachers and learned how to practice alchemy. People came to arrest him, and he drank the elixir in a hurry, becoming a fairy and ascending to heaven.His relatives and friends quickly drank the medicine and became immortals.The chickens and dogs of the Liu family also became immortals after eating the elixir in the alchemy pot.

Zhao Chaogang is now a cultivator in the Foundation Establishment period, and he is also the master of a small world, so of course Zhao Chaogang wants to give some benefits to his relatives and friends, this is human nature.

However, Zhao Chaogang directly gave the benefits to these relatives and friends. It is too conspicuous, and it will give people a feeling of nouveau riche, and it will even affect the relationship between each other. Moreover, if such a bad one, Zhao Chaogang will have It's a big trouble, so even if he wants to benefit his relatives and friends, Zhao Chaogang has to do it secretly.

Because of this, Zhao Chaogang chose to leave a trace of his spiritual consciousness on the calendar.

Because these calendars contain a trace of Zhao Chaogang's spiritual sense, after all Zhao Chaogang's relatives and friends get this calendar, they will like this calendar from the bottom of their hearts, so they either hang this calendar on a very It is a conspicuous place, so you can often see it, or store it directly, and then take it out frequently to have a look.

No matter which method Zhao Chaogang's relatives and friends choose, they all have one thing in common, that is, they will often look at this wall calendar. In this case, Zhao Chaogang's spiritual consciousness left on the wall calendar will play a role .

As long as Zhao Chaogang's relatives and friends often read the calendar, the trace of spiritual consciousness left by Zhao Chaogang on the calendar will unknowingly condense their spiritual power and make their spiritual power stronger and stronger. After these relatives and friends of Zhao Chaogang start practicing martial arts in the future, it will be very easy to break through the realm, because their spiritual power has been tempered into 'fine steel' by Zhao Chaogang's spiritual consciousness left on the calendar.

For a martial artist, when improving his cultivation, the most critical factor is the strength of his spiritual power in his mind, especially when those warriors above the acquired level [-] break through the realm, the factor of mental power is more important than other factors are more important.

And once a warrior prepares to break through from the acquired realm to the innate realm, the warrior's spiritual power is the most important link.Acquired warriors can only have a chance to break through to the innate stage only if their spiritual power is strong enough and condensed. Otherwise, even if this warrior has a strong cultivation base of true qi, he will never try to break through if his mental power is not enough. To the realm of the congenital period.

This is why many warriors, after reaching the state of great perfection in the Houtian period, no longer practice all day long, but start to do things that are a waste of time in the eyes of ordinary warriors.

Like starting to read some scriptures, or studying some chess records, music scores, etc., in the eyes of many warriors, these things are actually a waste of time, but in fact, these warriors who have reached the acquired Dzogchen realm are actually tempering With their mental strength.

Chanting scriptures, studying chess records, and music scores can all exercise a person's willpower very well.

The spiritual consciousness on the calendar that Zhao Chaogang gave to his relatives and friends can well condense the spiritual power of these relatives and friends. In this way, when they break through the realm of warriors in the future, they can achieve twice the result with half the effort.

It can even be said that as long as these relatives and friends of Zhao Chaogang put all their attention on practicing martial arts, these people will become congenital martial artists in more than ten years.

Zhao Chaogang's spiritual consciousness is a treasure to those warriors!

Of course, these relatives and friends of Zhao Chaogang will definitely not all start to practice martial arts in the future, but that's okay, if a person's mental strength is strengthened, no matter what he is doing, he will feel very handy , Moreover, the confidence in his heart will become stronger and stronger, so even if some of Zhao Chaogang's relatives and friends do not choose to practice martial arts, he will still have something to do in the future.

ps: Note: Thank you Jin Guiguan for your generous reward and support, thank you!